As men grow and mature, their expectations for the woman they wish to settle with steadily enhances and becomes more realistic over time. This is great news for the women out there whom have no idea what the typical male audience seeks in a companion.
Some of the more shallow men will base their idea of a good woman strictly on looks and nothing more. Don't stress when trying to impress these kinds of men since typically, their version of the right woman will drastically change over the years once they realize this level of thinking leads them nowhere.
These are the men who are not quite sure what they want out of a woman, beings as the majority of them think short-term and how to get them under the sheets - rather than for a long-term committed relationship.
Instead, focus your attention toward seeking the right man for the right reasons.
Below you will discover several outstanding tips, in no particular order, that you can mix and match so to attract the type of man to suit your needs.
NOTE: The following tips are not stereotyped into the overall perspective men; find what works for you and go with that.
They are however, based off the average male mind and what most men find absolutely attractive, appealing, and seductive about a woman....
Tip #1: Be Expressive...
If under the correct circumstances, guys absolutely love to hear you express your opinion. As long as you aren't arguing with him over something and assume that things will be your way or the highway, he will completely back you up in any case otherwise.
By standing up for what you believe in and fighting for justice and/or a great cause, more often than not, he will find you utterly amazing, strong, and inspirational - a huge turn-on!
NOTE: As the saying goes, 'Everything in Moderation.'
So in other words, be comfortable with speaking your mind, but be cautious you don't take it to extremes. You want to convince and persuade people why your opinion is beneficial, not to push them away with incessant ranting.
Tip #2: Be Unafraid...
This is in accordance with tip #1.
Not only voice your opinion and your view-point, but also be strong enough to really hold firm to those beliefs.
Nothing is worse than a wash-out who comes off as pathetic once she gives in to something less than desirable.
Plus, if you have something you want to say or express to your man, be sure you do so.
The method for doing this is to be as kind and courteous as you possibly can when you broach an opinionated topic.
If you over-do the negativity or come off too strong, he will shut down instead of opening up to consider what you have to say.
NOTE: Although you may be very passionate with your opinions and/or pleas, be respectful of his feelings and opinions as well. Meet in the middle to work on a compromise, and you will have him in awe of your ability to handle a situation.
Tip #3: Be Yourself...
Men are equipped with a sixth instinctive sense just as women are, and most can tell whenever a woman is trying to be, or act as someone she is not - just to impress him or win his affections.
Your man is not a competitive prize - he is just another man looking for love with someone just as real as he is.
Find a man who will fall in love with you, for all the reasons that make you unique! Your personality, your charm, your sex appeal, those cute little phobias you have, every one of your flaws, et cetera.
Your flaws are what make you unique, and what make you perfect!
You should not have to change for anyone else to like you. If so, you will set yourself up for inevitable resentment when the charades start to tire you out.
NOTE: Another tip to consider is to be more natural in terms of your appearance. No need to fancy up for your man every single time you are around him - this will only cause stress and paranoia.
Try to opt for a more comfortable and casual attire.
Plus, men totally dig the natural beauty of a woman. If you can play up your natural side in a subtle way then more power to you! You can do this by wearing makeup that appears more natural and not as overdone, or by wearing your hair down and air-dried, or even thrown into a simple pony-tail.
Tip #4: Be Healthy...
The best thing you could ever do to enhance your beauty and your happiness is to focus on your health. Lets face it, were not all born with a perfect bone structure, beautiful features, and an outstanding physical appearance.
As someone wise once said, "there will always be someone more beautiful, smarter, and/or wealthier than you."
Learn to be happy with your inner beauty - which is natural beauty, by practicing good health. Try to maintain a healthy weight, practice good hygiene (brush your teeth, cleanse your hair, etc.), and do the things that you love to do in life.
A healthy body is a happy body and when were happy and healthy, our natural beauty shines from our very soul, through our body, and is highlighted with our personalities.
These traits are far more attractive than it is to stress over being perfect at all times.
NOTE: Instead of 'perfect', as that is impossible, strive to be your best at all times.
Having good physical health correlates into good mental health.
Plus, if you look and feel your best, he will undoubtedly jump at every chance he can get to show you off. He will take pride in the dignity that you have for yourself, so shoot for the stars!
Tip #5: Be Enthusiastic...
Guys absolutely love when a woman knows how to get down and have some fun, so take some time to relax and unwind. Try sitting down to watch a game with him or even buy him a beer if you really want to get on his good side!
Having a great sense of humor and a playful personality will open you up to hundreds of avenues you may have never experienced before. People are practically magnetized towards those that radiate happiness and joviality.
Laughter truly is the best medicine and by learning to laugh in the face of your own humility, will practically strengthen you against any odds!
Tip #6: Be Spontaneous...
Do you really want to know how to keep him on his toes? Learn to become random and spontaneous, no matter how big or small the situation!
Surprise him with something sweet and creative that you thought up or engage in the silly/playful side of your personality that will make him chuckle over your smallest of quirks and innuendos.
Tip #7: Be Courteous...
As much as a guy likes to see his woman handle her own problems and use minor force if need be, he may not always find it very flattering. A better route to take would be to take the side of kindness.
'Kill them with kindness', or so they say, is actually a very powerful and classier way to handle any situation.
Aside from that, by practicing kindness and generosity in all that you do, helps to build a solid foundation of trust and adoration from your man. Especially when you are kind and respectful to the people who mean the most in his life, including his parents.
Try not to get angry over petty situations or cast judgment unless you truly deem it necessary.
By practicing kindness you are not only helping to create a better world, you are proving to your man you are all the woman he will ever need!
How? - Because you know how handle any situation just by casting it in the best possible light. Thus helping, rather than hindering, any future progress.
NOTE: You can help this positive behavior along in a very positive way, simply by offering your man compliments. Make them meaningful, honest, and exclusive to him.
Tip #8: Be Sensual...
You knew this one had to be on the list somewhere didn't you? *wink.
Men love the soft and feminine side of a woman. Learning how to harness the sweet yet seductive side of your nature, will have him begging for your affections.
Plus, men love to feel like none other than that - a man. So tap into your sexual deviance once in a while and give him what the both of you want.
Unlike most women, men are practically primed and ready to go just about anywhere.
Infuse this tip, with tip #6 - and watch the sparks fly as you get his engines going!
Engaging your sexual life with some enthusiasm, patience, and a sense of humor is all you need to make any romantic rendezvous an enjoyable experience.
The best sound in the world, to your man (aside from the engine of his favorite car), is the sound of you getting off in the bedroom. So put some fire in your love life and learn to love your sexy side!
Remember, he is probably just as nervous as you are for the first time.
Good sex is vital to the overall strength of any relationship, however why settle for 'good' when the two of you could make it great!? Find out what works for the two of you and strive to meet the others needs.
Plus, most men might not come out and admit it, but a lot of them really appreciate the cuddling, snuggling, and hand-holding that women tend to love so much. So feel free to take a hold of his hand in public or sneak up with a hug from behind.
Tip #9: Be Easygoing...
If you take life so seriously that you cannot appreciate how far you have come or what you currently possess, it will affect the energy of your relationship.
It is the exception, rather than the rule, for a man to favor a woman of high maintenance and extremely high expectations, over someone more down to Earth and focused on what truly matters.
The more relaxed and comfortable you can make him feel around you, the quicker he will learn to trust in you and open himself up to commitment.
If needed, give him his space and let him have his 'guy time' every now and again, or even ask if you could join in on occasion. Don't get exceedingly jealous or annoyed either if his attention seems to be off in something else momentarily.
We all experience jealousy and envy, to some degree throughout our lives but if we can learn not to let that affect our happiness, we will make a substantial leap towards a positive and healthy well-being.
Besides, a guy loves to know when a girl is 'on his team' (standing up for his opinion or having his back in times of need), in other words - fighting for him, rather than fighting 'over' him (squabbling with another woman because she is getting a little too close by your standards, etc).
Other examples; arguing unnecessarily with some woman whom happened to be checking him out, or bringing it to his attention in a rude manner that he should keep his eyes to himself.
By engaging in one, a few, or even all of the above tips, you will eventually have men approaching more often and being more interested in getting to know you.
This will have been possible because of your relaxed, easy-going demeanor, attractive enthusiasm, and your well-put together, radiant appearance!
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